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Train Wreck (guest post)

About 7 months ago, one of my wonderful readers took the opportunity to submit a great guest post about her experiences with a passive aggressive partner. You can read it here: Starting Over. Here’s the second part to that post, telling … Read more …

Perpetual travelling while disabled

Back in March this year I wrote about why I want to be a perpetual traveller. I still want it, but since I wrote that post I’ve learned a lot about what’s likely to be involved with perpetual travelling, in the … Read more …

Labeling makes things easier for me

I’ve known all my life there’s something different about me, that I could never put my finger on. It inspired my constant search for personal growth, and for an understanding of the human psyche so that I could understand myself … Read more …

Understanding my life with Aspergers

I’ve had a really amazing and enlightening few weeks, reading all about Aspergers Syndrome and the Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), and re-evaluating my life with this new understanding of who I am, who I have been, and why. I’m in … Read more …

Aspergers and me

Back in October 2012 I learned that I may have Aspergers Syndrome. Various tests I do online put me up at the threshold or over the edge (depending on the test) and into the ‘you definitely have it’ area. Interestingly, when I talked … Read more …

Starting Over (guest post)

I’ve been a passive aggressive man in my past relationships, so my writing has been about my experiences and my growth from my perpective. But there’s also the perspective of someone who has had to live with a passive aggressive … Read more …

Passive aggression and masculinity

Over the recent years I’ve discovered that I’ve become something of an ‘expert’ on passive aggression. After having experienced it for most of my life, realised it, understood it, and overcome it, I have a unique perspective on what it … Read more …

Be responsible for your passive aggression

Men with debilitating passive aggression in their relationships usually find it’s because of their inability to accept responsibility. This makes healing that much more difficult. You can’t heal it if you think you’re not responsible for it. The best thing … Read more …

Growing out of passive aggression

One of the most popular posts of my old blog is about how I was trying to grow out of passive aggression, and surprisingly succeeding! It’s still getting people comment on it today. The post was written only two years after I … Read more …

Traveling while disabled

One of the things I’m intending doing this year is writing more about my travels, and my experiences as a disabled person, off-road driver and traveller. I’m not sure how many of those there are out there who fit into all … Read more …

My back went out today

I woke up today feeling a slight twinge in my lower back. This is usually a sign that I need to make an appointment with the chiropractor for a readjustment of the spine. So I went off to work, got … Read more …

Passive Aggression and Relationships

I grew up with Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder (PAPD) into my adult years, and had it affect my life and quite a few of my relationships over the years. I just never knew, and thought it was always other people with … Read more …