Alan Seeks A Boss
I found some websites yesterday talking about finding a boss that you’d love to work for instead of simply finding a job. I fell in love with the idea! Everyone out there looking for work is doing it the same … Read more …
Live Your Life
Life comes first
One of the things that has always been important for me is to maintain my enjoyment of life, and I’ve always treated my life as more important than my work. I have never lived to work, I’ve always worked to … Read more …
I’m in the freelance web design business now
As a result of my success with the web design proposal last week and getting my first client, I spent most of the weekend working on a professional website to promote myself and my web design services. I’m excited to … Read more …
Have you heard of Lifestyle Design?
What is Lifestyle Design? Well, it’s pretty much exactly what it sounds like. It’s the art and practice of designing your own lifestyle. Hopefully exactly as you want it to be. The New Rich (NR) are those who abandon the … Read more …
Finding the D/s balance in relationships
It feels like such a long time ago now, but it was only a few years ago that I explored the nature of relationships and sexuality within the BDSM lifestyle. I enjoyed what I learned and experienced, especially what I … Read more …
Be with people who truly value you
Look around you at the people you hang out with. How many of them seek to be with you, compared to how many you seek to be with? If you didn’t keep in touch with them, would they try to … Read more …
Be gentle with yourself
This society we live in is very goal and results oriented. Look around you and you’ll see deadlines, objectives, incentives and rewards. Sitting back and taking it easy is often frowned upon. People will tell you that you need to work … Read more …
How to achieve what you want in life
What holds most of us back from achieving our goals and dreams in our lives is fear. Fear of the unknown, of failure, of rejection, and even of success itself, because of a fear of the responsibilities that success would … Read more …
Stop worrying about things that haven’t happened
Do you ever find yourself worrying about things that haven’t happened yet? Maybe you worry about what others think of you. Or you might even be thinking about things like losing your job, or having your partner leave you, or … Read more …
What I’m learning from bankruptcy
For the past three years I’ve had an issue bearing down on me, which I did my best to put aside as I got on with the rest of my life. However, the result of it all was that I … Read more …
Seek the outcome, not the solution
For every problem you have in your life, there’s always a solution that will lead you to the outcome you desire. It can be difficult to work out what the solution is, but I’m here to tell you that sometimes … Read more …
Creating a reality of your own choosing
“Your life today is a result of the choices you’ve made over the past five years. Your life five years from now will be a result of the choices you make today. Choose wisely.” Quantum physics seems to state that … Read more …
Live YOUR life
“Choose life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. Choose a fucking big television, Choose washing machines, cars, compact disc players, and electrical tin openers. Choose good health, low cholesterol and dental insurance. Choose fixed-interest mortgage repayments. Choose … Read more …