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Love is a minefield

My wife and I were watching one of the episodes of Boston Legal last night. We’ve been binge watching the past couple months. The third time for me, first time for her. It’s one of the best shows in the … Read more …

It’s about love

I saw a video tonight that made me quite emotional with its content, because in this video is a man and a woman who love each other. She looks after him in a way that is so special to her, … Read more …

Giving relationship advice

One of the things I used to do a LOT over the years was write articles about how to have better relationships and dating experiences. With all the books I’ve read on how to have better relationships, and all the … Read more …

It’s about being connected

When I was a child I never had any friends, and my parents resented my presence. I didn’t really know what human connections were until I was in my 20’s, and I’ve been learning more and more about them ever since. What … Read more …

Living with radical honesty

Have you ever tried being honest for a day, and just telling people around you what you think or feel about them or the situations you’re in? If you have, how has it worked out for you? Radical honesty is what … Read more …

You can change the world

We hear all the time about how we can change the world if only we smiled more and brightened someone’s day. It’s true though.

Think about it – someone is walking along, minding their own business, thinking about how miserable their life is, and how they just want to kill someone. Truth be told, they’re already planning how to kill their husband / wife / boss / neighbour in such a way that no one will ever know.

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Choose yourself, not your abuser

For all kinds of different reasons, we may end up in the wrong relationship with someone. When things go bad, we try to hold on to those relationships because it’s important to us to try and show our commitment by … Read more …

I have some great friends

One of the things that’s become clear to me now that I’m leaving Canberra and heading off to Melbourne is how close my friends are. Some of them have expressed their sadness that I’m going. One of my friends told … Read more …

Be a better man

Discovering you have passive aggressive behaviours and responses to the point that it’s become a personality disorder (PAPD, or Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder) can be something of a shock. When I discovered this about myself it left me depressed for … Read more …