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How to eliminate jealousy from relationships

Many people in relationships, both men and women, have huge issues with their partner having friendships with the opposite sex, often experiencing jealousy at the thought. If you’re someone who often finds yourself suspicious or jealous about your partner’s opposite-sex … Read more …

The connections in our lives

One of the things we strive for in our lives is meaningful connections with other people or, to use the more common phrase, meaningful relationships. ‘No man is an island’, as the saying goes, which means that only when human beings … Read more …

Marriage and relationships

It’s been over two weeks now since I got married and, strangely enough, I don’t feel that different. All that’s changed is that I have a wife now instead of a fiancee. Well… Maybe I feel a bit more relaxed … Read more …

I’m getting married in 3 days

On New Year’s Eve 2012 I asked Fanfan to marry me, and in just 3 days, on the afternoon of October 28, we’ll be getting married. This past 10 months has been quite a ride! To be honest, I’ll be … Read more …

Happy wife, happy life

I was just reading something that was talking about a study having found that men find women who smile to be more attractive than women who don’t smile. Well, duh. Interestingly, the study also found that women found men more … Read more …

The free market of sexuality

What is this ‘free market of sexuality’, I can hear you asking? Simply, it’s the reality out there that most people don’t want to acknowledge, especially if they believe that they’re not highly desired in the market. But they’re aware … Read more …

Passive aggression and masculinity

Over the recent years I’ve discovered that I’ve become something of an ‘expert’ on passive aggression. After having experienced it for most of my life, realised it, understood it, and overcome it, I have a unique perspective on what it … Read more …

Respect

My fiancee, Fanfan, is Chinese. She’s awesome. It’s why we’re engaged to be married. A big part of our relationship is mutual respect, and it’s‘respect’ that I wanted to write about today. In the past I’ve had relationships with both Caucasian … Read more …

Be responsible for your passive aggression

Men with debilitating passive aggression in their relationships usually find it’s because of their inability to accept responsibility. This makes healing that much more difficult. You can’t heal it if you think you’re not responsible for it. The best thing … Read more …

Everything changes…. again

  I guess it started a year ago, when that woman wanted to be my submissive. It started a series of events that ended up being all about my own evolution as a person. I’ve been writing in this blog … Read more …

Dominance and Submission

I’ve recently met a woman who wanted to be dominated, and she thought I would be a good candidate for that. I agreed with her. How’s that for an intro? 🙂 As this blog is about my life, I, of … Read more …