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Black or white

It's been said, particularly during a recent game of 'Scruples', that everything for me is 'black or white', and so it was easy to determine what my answers would be to various questions that concerned how I would react to … Read more …

My reality

There are as many realities as there are people on earth. And more. For every living thing that perceives, it exists in a reality separate to anything else. My reality is different to yours, and your reality is different to … Read more …

Two Monks

Some weeks ago I came down with some kind of flu that gave me a headach, achey bones, and a general feeling of non-wellness. I seem to have it again. It began on Wednesday, and I was the fortunate recipient … Read more …

Life Changes

The other day I downloaded an e-book I found that's called The Science Of Getting Rich. I just started reading it today, and I found this statement: YOU CANNOT RETAIN A TRUE AND CLEAR VISION OF WEALTH if you are … Read more …

Life Coaching Concerns

I spoke to Amanda last night, a friend of mine in Australia who is currently a life coach. The conversation was quite enlightening for me, as it pointed out to me how focused she was on the intricacies of business, … Read more …

More Life Coaching

Ange, one of the friends (of Deidre) that joined us for yum cha today, found out that I had started down the life coaching path, and she got very interested. To cut a long story short, I'm going to be … Read more …

Life Coaching

On Thursday a friend of mine, who I've known for a while on the internet (we've never actually met yet in real life), was discussing with me a few of his issues that he was unhappy about. I offered some … Read more …

Self responsibility

How often do we blame someone or something for making us feel a particular way? How often do we blame someone for 'making' us feel angry, annoyed, happy, sad, and so many other feelings? Are they MAKING us feel that … Read more …

Pleasure and pain

The truth is that we can learn to condition our minds, bodies, and emotions to link pain or pleasure to whatever we choose. By changing what we link pain and pleasure to, we will instantly change our behaviors. – Anthony … Read more …

Self Responsibility

How often do we blame someone or something for making us feel a particular way? How often do we blame someone for 'making' us feel angry, annoyed, happy, sad, and so many other feelings? Are they MAKING us feel that … Read more …

The story of my life

Some of you may have already read it, while the rest of you didn't even know I'd done it.  The story of my life.  You can read it here: http://www.thespirit-online.com/mylife.html I wrote it in 1996, and added to it in … Read more …

I’m letting it all go

I've been reading about Taoism tonight, and thinking about my attitude towards life. In order to follow 'the way of Tao', I'm letting it all go. Politics. News. Right or wrong. What I feel or say doesn't matter to how … Read more …