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The perception of spiritual reality

Between 1991 and 1996 I was very much into psychic and spiritual development. I experienced things I'd never experienced before, and ran a spiritual development group to help others learn how to do the same. From 1996 I walked away … Read more …

Self responsibility

How often do we blame someone or something for making us feel a particular way? How often do we blame someone for 'making' us feel angry, annoyed, happy, sad, and so many other feelings? Are they MAKING us feel that … Read more …

Pleasure and pain

The truth is that we can learn to condition our minds, bodies, and emotions to link pain or pleasure to whatever we choose. By changing what we link pain and pleasure to, we will instantly change our behaviors. – Anthony … Read more …

Where’s your damn balls!

There's a guy at work who just started seeing one of the ladies there. He was invited out for a beer but he said he had to talk to his girlfriend first. They spoke on the phone, and he was … Read more …

What A Girl Wants

Some great advice for men from a woman's perspective: Don't be nice Be compromising Be independent Be assertive Don't be boring Don't be romantic Don't be sensitive Read more about them here. I agree with everything she says, and think … Read more …

Important Qualities For Men

I believe there are 3 important qualities men need to have, and these qualities form the underlying foundations of everything that makes us who we are. Developing these qualities, if you don’t already have them, will bring you success in … Read more …

Don’t be a nice guy!

“Nice guys come last.” Why is that saying, so often denied by women, always so true? Women say they want a nice guy, but really, they don’t. They often end up being with someone who treats them like a jerk, … Read more …

Rejected Again

It doesn't matter how good looking you are, or how confident you are, or how funny you are, or how much you prepare. You will always be rejected by someone. There's a saying: "you can't please everyone all the time". … Read more …

Self Responsibility

How often do we blame someone or something for making us feel a particular way? How often do we blame someone for 'making' us feel angry, annoyed, happy, sad, and so many other feelings? Are they MAKING us feel that … Read more …

Seeing The Future

Seeing the future is a skill often 'hampered' by free will. No matter what anyone might say, there is never any guarantee that what you 'see' happening tomorrow (or what someone else sees for you) is what WILL happen tomorrow. … Read more …

Pleasure and Pain

The truth is that we can learn to condition our minds, bodies, and emotions to link pain or pleasure to whatever we choose. By changing what we link pain and pleasure to, we will instantly change our behaviors. – Anthony … Read more …