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Seek and ye shall find

Comfort. Stability. Security. These are qualities that I have in my relationship with Deidre. Coincidentally, these are qualities that I've never had in any other relationship in my entire life. Each relationship, until now, had doubt, anxiety, uncertainty, as their … Read more …

Multiculturalism

Back in very late 2003 – or was it very early 2004? Somewhere around there – I was seeing Jhen Jhen, a Chinese girl. On this one particular day, we went up the cable car to the top of the … Read more …

Polyamory

Polyamory, for those of you who don’t know, is this: Polyamory is the nonpossessive, honest, responsible and ethical philosophy and practice of loving multiple people simultanously. Polyamory emphasizes consciously choosing how many partners one wishes to be involved with rather … Read more …

Whatever you want

It was about 10 years ago, while I was in Canberra. This was before dating websites were all the rage. It was when Netscape 3 was popular, and Internet Explorer was hardly heard of. ICQ and IRC were the chat … Read more …

Goodbye friend – Part 2

It's been a couple of days since I reacted the way I did, to the declaration of my friend that killing innocent people was a good thing to do. I've spoken about this with a few people now, and the … Read more …

An interesting day

What an interesting day I had yesterday. First, I bid goodbye to a friend. I'll talk a bit more about that a bit later. Second, while I was waiting to catch a bus after work, to go pick up my … Read more …

Goodbye friend

An old friend of mine, who, for the time being, shall remain nameless, has been 'dumped' by me today. They're not my friend any more. This is the culmination of quite a few years of knowing them, arguing with them, … Read more …

Relationship types

My personality type is: INFP – Introverted iNtuitive Feeling Perceptive. Quiet, reflective, and idealistic. Interested in serving humanity. Well-developed value system, which they strive to live in accordance with. Extremely loyal. Adaptable and laid-back unless a strongly-held value is threatened. … Read more …

Open relationships

I was talking about this with someone the other day, and they asked me my view on it. This is basically what I told them, that I thought I would put into here as well: Western society is Christian-based, which … Read more …

Where’s your damn balls!

There's a guy at work who just started seeing one of the ladies there. He was invited out for a beer but he said he had to talk to his girlfriend first. They spoke on the phone, and he was … Read more …

Looking at women

I had lunch with Deidre today, as I often do, and I asked her a question which I've been curious about. "Has any of your ex's openly looked at other women in front of you like I do?" "Yes, Xxxxx … Read more …

Please be respectful

A friend of mine read this site for the first time last night, and they're a friend who's never known about my online journaling before. I've been thinking about it last night and today, in the context of the circle … Read more …