New things in my life
Ok, I got the new laptop yesterday from work, and I've been playing with it / setting it up ever since. It's very cool… a nice wide screen, and very fast. I've come down with a bad cold, so I … Read more …
Relationships
It’s time…
Deidre talked to me last night about her moving in. I've been open to this possibility for a little while now, but I've been sitting back and letting her come up with the idea. I wasn't going to raise the … Read more …
‘Colourful’
'Colourful' Apparently if you silently mouth the word 'colourful' it can look like you're saying 'I love you'… Deidre has been afraid of falling in love for fear of getting hurt if it goes bad. So it's been 'I like … Read more …
Happy Valentines Day
I recently had a problem with the forum which meant that a number of posts that had been written were lost, including one or two in this February section. Let me provide an update… During the past few weeks I've … Read more …
A new year, a new beginning?
I've decided tonight to try again with my ex, Swee, who I was with for most of 2004. I've realised that I miss her more than I thought I would, and I've realised that I enjoyed the past month or … Read more …
Happy New Year!
Welcome to 2005. I hope you all have a great New Year, and an even better 2005. Let me be the first to tell you that 2005 feels…. just like 2004! Wow. Surprising, hey? Well, I'm sure the changes will … Read more …
Why haven’t I found…
Someone asked me on a dating site today why I hadn't found that someone special yet. My reply was…. Good question… why haven't I found someone special? I think it's because I'm wanting to retain who I am. I have … Read more …
Changes
I've finished the training last week, and have been working on site development this week for the department I'm responsible for (in relation to their presence on the new intranet). I realised today that I'm doing what I really love. … Read more …
Moving on
I'm having an online conversation with Zhenzhen's husband (now ex-husband) at the moment, and learning some interesting things. He's been open about why she left him, telling me about how he was seeing this Thai girl at the same time … Read more …
Compromising positions
I worked the graveyard shift on Saturday morning, from midnight to 8am, so that the guy who normally does it could go out and get drunk at the pub crawl sponsored by work. At around 3am, I received a call … Read more …
Affairs with married women
I was talking to someone the other day (I can't remember who it was!) about how I've been involved with a number of married women over the years. They, like many others, felt that it was a bad thing being … Read more …
Wakana
Over the past few weeks, Wakana has been increasingly online and chatting to me about stuff. She has been asking me lots of questions about things she has to do in her life, asking for advice, etc. (She's also created … Read more …
These are what I’ve learnt
Recent discussion about my relationship/dating preferences has inspired me to talk about my past experiences with women – western and asian – to relate what I've experienced and learned. I'm going briefly through all the women I've been involved with … Read more …