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Aspergers and me

Back in October 2012 I learned that I may have Aspergers Syndrome. Various tests I do online put me up at the threshold or over the edge (depending on the test) and into the ‘you definitely have it’ area. Interestingly, when I talked … Read more …

Starting Over (guest post)

I’ve been a passive aggressive man in my past relationships, so my writing has been about my experiences and my growth from my perpective. But there’s also the perspective of someone who has had to live with a passive aggressive … Read more …

Are you an Indigo Adult?

Back in 2011, a friend of mine suggested to me that I might be an Indigo.“Eh? What’s that?” I thought to myself, and then, like everything that comes into my life that I don’t know about, I Googled it to learn what … Read more …

Evolving beyond

Whenever you evolve or get better at something, or you want to explore a new direction in life, people around you will try to prevent you. They’ll give you all manner of reasons and arguments about why you shouldn’t be … Read more …

Live YOUR life

“Choose life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. Choose a fucking big television, Choose washing machines, cars, compact disc players, and electrical tin openers. Choose good health, low cholesterol and dental insurance. Choose fixed-interest mortgage repayments. Choose … Read more …

The free market of sexuality

What is this ‘free market of sexuality’, I can hear you asking? Simply, it’s the reality out there that most people don’t want to acknowledge, especially if they believe that they’re not highly desired in the market. But they’re aware … Read more …

How to improve and simplify your life

Over the years I’ve heard about the 80/20 rule, which is also known as Pareto’s Law, named after Vilfredo Pareto who invented it. It’s based on his mathematical formula he created to demonstrate the distribution of wealth in society – … Read more …

Passive aggression and masculinity

Over the recent years I’ve discovered that I’ve become something of an ‘expert’ on passive aggression. After having experienced it for most of my life, realised it, understood it, and overcome it, I have a unique perspective on what it … Read more …